Skylar Colle LMFT
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Magnolia Health
"A healer's power stems not from any special ability, but from maintaining the courage and awareness to embody and express the universal healing power that every human being naturally possesses."
Eric Micha'el Leventhal
ABOUT ME
I hold a Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy and Art Therapy. I am currently pursuing my PhD in Clinical Sexology, where my research focuses on decolonizing therapy and exploring less rigid, more liberating, and embodied forms of healing. I believe healing comes from both deep understanding and embodiment.
As an empathic therapist, I support clients in healing attachment insecurities, trauma, nervous system responses, intimacy and sexual concerns, and relationship challenges. My approach is centered on helping you reconnect with your desires, and pleasure to feel more embodied, empowered, and free.
Drawing from a variety of therapeutic modalities—such as The Four-Dimensional Wheel, Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Somatic Attachment, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Clinical Sex Therapy, Mindfulness, and Movement—I offer a holistic and embodied approach to healing that nurtures the mind, body, heart, and spirit. Together, we’ll create space for you to rediscover your pleasure, heal, and experience transformation.
EDUCATION
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St. Edward's University, Bachelor's in Psychology, Minor in Art
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Notre Dame de Namur University, Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy and Art Therapy
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Modern Sex Therapy Institute, in progress PhD in Clinical Sexology
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LMFT 001905
ORIENTATION
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Somatic Attachment Therapy connects the knowledge of how the nervous system regulates the body with the foundation of somatic defenses tied to attachment insecurity. By recognizing these defenses in the body, we can help clients shift old patterns and heal attachment wounds. Through breathwork and body awareness, clients can release trauma and emotional pain, fostering deeper connection and healing.
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Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is grounded in attachment science and is designed for individuals, couples, and families. It helps clients regulate emotions and repair interaction patterns that contribute to emotional pain, fostering healthier connections and a greater sense of wholeness in relationships.
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Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) is an evidence-based, rapid therapeutic approach that uses horizontal eye movements combined with a specific script to help clients shift their memories and sensations related to trauma. Many clients report feeling relief and a significant improvement in symptoms after just one session.
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a therapeutic framework that supports individuals in healing trauma and painful experiences by exploring the various parts of themselves. IFS helps clients feel more integrated and connected to their true self, offering a pathway to inner harmony and healing.
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Gina Ogden’s Four-Dimensional Wheel integrates Dr. Ogden’s sex therapy research with the Pachakuti Mesa Tradition, emphasizing healing in the mind, body, heart, and spirit. This method recognizes the importance of balancing and integrating all four dimensions for holistic healing and transformation.
EXPERIENCE
With over ten years of experience in the therapy field, I have had the privilege of working with a diverse range of clients, including children, teens, adults, couples, and families. In this work, I have found that true healing isn’t just about processing pain—it’s about reclaiming the joy, pleasure, and liberation that can feel elusive. My approach is rooted in helping individuals reconnect with their raw, untamed desires, embrace their pleasure, and reclaim their personal power.
I am deeply committed to guiding you on your path to liberation, where intellect meets instinct, and the embodied, soulful self is honored. I blend thoughtful, decolonizing, trauma-informed, and liberatory practices with an instinctual, untamed energy that recognizes the deep wisdom within you. Healing and growth are inseparable from the reclamation of pleasure and the freedom to live authentically. This is why my work is both intellectual and visceral—creating space for you to rediscover your true desires, express them freely, and reconnect with your innate power, free from shame or limitation.
This approach is not about simply fixing problems, but about helping you uncover the fullness of who you are—your desires, passions, and capacity for deep, embodied pleasure.
True healing, for me, involves not only addressing past wounds but also creating space to dream, desire, and experience pleasure as a vital part of your well-being. My work is dedicated to helping you reclaim your birthright of joy, pleasure, and freedom—honoring both your struggles and your untapped potential to experience deep, embodied satisfaction.
I am here to help you reconnect with your desires, cultivate deep pleasure, and walk with you toward the liberation of your soul. Whether your journey is intellectual, instinctual, or somewhere in between, I offer a compassionate, embodied, and liberatory space for your healing and growth.
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SPECIALTIES
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Couples
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Attachment insecurity
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Relationship dissatisfaction
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Intimacy Issues
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PTSD
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Trauma recovery
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Sexual abuse/ trauma
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Vaginismus
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Pain during sex
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Erectile Dysfunction
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Early/Rapid or Delayed Ejaculation
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Low desire/no desire
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Inability to experience orgasm
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Body image issues
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Sexual inhibitions
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Dating
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Erotic intelligence
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Enhancing sexual pleasure
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Little or no sex in the relationship
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Conflicts about desire/gap in desire
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LGBTQI+
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Infidelity
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Erotic intelligence
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BDSM/Kink/Fetish
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Swinging/polyamory/consensual non-monogamy
CONTACT ME
Contact me for a free 15 minute consultation.
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I am in network with Aetna, Cigna, Optum, Oscar, and United Health Care. For out of network clients I can offer a detailed receipt that can be submitted to insurance companies.
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